In Appreciation of Those Who Care for Us

I am a stroke survivor and have a very dear friend, Janice, who developed Parkinsons at 55. Janice is a very kind and caring person and poetry is one of her talents. Janice has recently written a poem about caregivers of those with chronic diseases/illnesses. I asked Janice would she give me permission to share her poem on the National Stroke Foundation website and also on enableme and this is part of her response “…it is so important to give recognition and accolades to all caregivers who are really unsung heroes with their constant support and care of loved ones”. I hope you all enjoy her words below and her poem.

 

This short poem is dedicated to all those caregivers who put their own lives on hold to fully support loved ones battling chronic illnesses/diseases such as Parkinson’s, MS, Stroke, etc.

Your strength and presence inspires loved ones to keep on going

Your kindness motivates them not to lose hope

Your caring encourages them to keep fighting their disease

And loved ones acknowledge that they wouldn't be at this point in their life journey without your loving care and on-going support!

 

IN APPRECIATION OF THOSE WHO CARE FOR US.

By Janice Rowan

When the diagnosis of a chronic illness impacts on a loved one; it also affects you!

Your lives change dramatically as its future implications are many not few.

You evolve into a well-informed supporter, strong advocate and loyal carer as well

Encouraging a loved one to remain active and independent, throughout this private hell.

Your life is put on hold, while you continue to devote attention to their pressing needs.

Monitoring how symptoms vary regularly and where future progression of the illness leads.

You share all their emotions, as you both experience daily what this condition has cost!

And you understand and give comfort as they grieve for all that they have lost.

At times you wonder if your constant presence and assistance makes any difference at all.

Especially when loved ones can seem detached, moody and not the person you recall.

But your caring partnership is the best therapy to motivate and keep hope alive in the quest

Of finding a miracle cure in the near future to eradicate this devastating and universal pest.

But until then, you are truly valued and appreciated for the love and support given tirelessly each day.

Loved ones recognise you as their treasured earth angel and unite in sending sincere thanks and praise in a most heartfelt way!