My husband has a disability. I don't. This is what I wish I'd known before we had a kid

Diana
Diana on Tuesday, July 14 2020
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Nathan and Kerry-Ann are expecting their first child very soon. They shared this article called: 'My husband has a disability. I don't. This is what I wish I'd known before we had a kid.'

I thought others may find it helpful. Thanks Nathan and Kerry-Ann for sharing.

 

They posted:

 

Parenting with a disability is unique for each couple.

 

We were aware of Nathan's limitations and disabilities prior to conceiving and what this will mean to our roles in co-parenting. I am planning to single parent with his help appreciated in whatever way possible. I am placing no expectations on him but know that he will give it a go and try his best.

 

We're starting to practice baby care and trying to prepare ourselves for this unique situation, but know this can change at the drop of a hat when the baby arrives. The main thing we have learnt is to be open and communicate, which has allowed us to adapt to any situation we may find ourselves in. - Nathan and Kerry-Ann

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kris

Hi There, I had stroke aged 40. 6 years ago my children were 5 & 7 at the time. Parenting is tough with or without a disability. Best advice would be for you all to sleep when you can. My children would go to a neighbour during schoool holidays or Grand parents so I could rest. 

Best part for your Child is they will assume that Dad is normal because they never knew dad before his injury. My kids now 11 &13 sometimes know my limits more than I do! I nolonger feel guilty and accept they are learning calm, quiet and patience. What a wonderful lesson you can learn so young. I hope this was helpful. It will be a wonderful journey for you both full of tears and laughing. Kris x 

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