Alcohol

Nina Wilde
Nina Wildeon Sunday, September 4 2016
10 Comments

I am wondering about Stroke Community's perception/knowledge on the consumption of alcohol post stroke and how this affects peoples socialisation.

I was told I could never have alcohol again at the age of 22years of age.  At the time this news was not a big deal as alcohol to that point in my life had not been a big deal, and post stroke I had many other areas in life that I needed to work on let alone drinking.  Social outings for me took a back seat to recovery/work life for myself and my husband at the time. We worked hard to have the life we wanted.

Post stroke we were planning children, having social occasions where children were involved became the norm so alcohol for me did not play a big factor.  Yet still I was consistently asked by my peers did I want a drink.  Saying no was not a problem to me.  I would turn up at social occasions with my plastic wine glass ready to be filled with the mineral water I had bought along.  I began to realise that peer pressure was something not just experienced at school!

Eventually I did begin to drink - with the utmost caution.  I learn't what I could  and how much to drink without after affect . It has never ceased to astound me how I was able to go out, socialise and not drink, drive home and wake up to the next day feeling like I had achieved something major when other had gone home legless.

The purpose of this post is I guess to ask others what they have found or are still finding challenging in regards to alcohol.

I have often thought an advertising campaign regarding this very topic would raise awareness to the social challenges not only stroke but brain injury in general would benefit from.

 

10 Responses

Hi, 1 beer great 2 beers nice. 3 beers no !   I cannot handle the brain sleep patterns or slow day afterwards. Plus the Calories in a beer are equal to a whole greasy Burger. I cannot control my weight through exercise so i have to limit my intake of food/drink. Same goes with Red Wine, which i love with some cheese. mmmmm , Mark.  

I am 86 years old and had my stroke 20months ago. Much of my life I have been a casual drinker, sometimes not at all. I can count on one hand the times I've been legless! Other times like when under flying training in the RAF,in my 20's I drank  moderately heavy. 

About 25 years ago I changed my drinking to whisky and a couple of doubles a day with ginger ale was my norm. This was quite expensive so fifteen years ago I bought a still and made my own. This is quite legal in New Zealand if it is for your own consumption. I can make whisky for about $12 a litre.

Nobody told me not to drink but just in case I have cut my consumption down to just one whisky a day with Sprite lemonade in a large glass. This is taken at four oclock as the sun goes down over the yardarm and makes my day worth living. Yes, I could give it up, I gave up smoking after 40 years of puffing everything legal about 20 years ago. ...But, since I can see no good reason to do so I will continue with my hablt.

Deigh

Hi everyone,

 

It's HOT, and I have just made tea and to go with it a very refreshing drink of plain mineral water, with ice, lemon and mint and served up in a pretty glass. Because presentation makes for a pleasant drink.

I searched back for this post on alcohol as I have more to add.

 

I stopped having the occasional glass of bubbles last July - I went dry July and from then continued.

Occasionally in this really hot weather I could have gone a chilled glass of bubbles, but I chose not to. I have written previously about the dilemma I often faced when disclosing my health history and the reaction this had.  When I think about some of the people who I told with trust, they were often the ones who persistently wanted me to have a drink with them. Confusing.

 

 

Anyway I thought I would post a photo of my refreshing drink.

 

Does anyone who is else  have anything to add on the subject of alcohol?

 

 

 

 

Got to admit that looks excellent. I raise a glass of fridge cooled water to you!

The temperature in my den is now 33c. That is too hot to consider practice on the guitar so will have to defer it till the sun goes down, What temperature are you facing?

Deigh (New Zealand)

Hi Deigh,

 

Hot over in New Zealand too, it's mid 30's all week for us as well.A bit of a breeze at night which makes for good sleeping.

 

So I have some bottles of mineral water in the pantry ready for the week ahead. I did see a recipe last year for lavender iced tea as well, I'll have a search to see if I can find it. I'll put the recipe up with a photo once I have made it.

 

How are you keeping cool over in NZ Deigh?

 

:-) Sue

 

 

I've bought an aircooler device which is helping a little but mostly we just open doors each end of the flat and allow the air to blow through. I've got my eye on a portable air-conditioner and am trying to convince myself to buy it. Once February is over the humidity and temperature should drop so it is a waste of money to buy an expensive article now.
Deigh

Hi Deigh,

 

Well I hope that your efforts to stay cool leave you sleeping well.  I sometimes put a wet tea towel in the freezer and hang it round my neck

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