Change in behaviour post Stroke

Mary
Maryon Sunday, May 30 2021
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Hi. I am looking to see if any Carer’s experience difficulties in coping with their loved one getting angry with them when caring. I care for my dad who had his 4th stroke 2 years ago that has left him with cognition and communication deficiencies. At the beginning he’s been good and would only get angry every couple of days. He now gets angry everyday, yells in my face about the smallest things. I ask him why he is yelling but it just makes him yell more. Does getting angry and yelling not good for him and increases his risk for another stroke? Is this the side effects of his condition getting worse because of the stroke? 

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jenny

 Mary as a survivor I know my feelings were so intense post stroke. I am so sorry to read of the tough time you are experiencing as your Dad’s carer. 

I suggest you call Strokeline on l800787653  where you can speak to professionals . Please take care of yourself. Jenny

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StrokeLine

Hi Mary, 

  

Thanks for reaching out on EnableMe. We are sorry to hear about your dad’s strokes and the impact of his worsening behaviour.

 

Changes in emotions and personality are common after stroke. These can be impacted on further by cognitive and communication difficulties. It’s normal to experience strong emotions after stroke, however these emotional reactions usually get better with time. Longer-term emotional and personality changes where aggression or anger is involved, this includes shouting, are a problem. Fortunately there are treatment options available. 

 

If you’re based in Australia we recommend calling our health professionals on StrokeLine 1800 787 653 to discuss the best options for you and your dad, based on his age and where you live.

 

A good starting point is to speak to your dad’s GP. Here are some resources and suggestions:

 

Mental Health Treatment Plan 

Under Medicare’s Mental Health Treatment Plan, your father may be eligible for up to 20 sessions with a mental health professional (psychologist or psychiatrist) each year. They can assess your dad’s mental health and behaviour and make a plan. Your dad’s GP can make the referral.

 

1800 RESPECT

1800 RESPECT offers confidential information, counselling and support. Family violence includes repetitive behaviour that makes you feel scared or threatened. It can happen in any relationship.

Phone 1800 737 732

 

Carer Gateway

Carer Gateway provide advice and free counselling sessions for carers, just like you. They have some great resources to help you look after yourself.

Phone 1800 422 737

 

MensLine Australia

Mens Line is a 24/7 free phone and online counselling service assisting Australian men with their emotional well-being.

Phone 1800 789 978

 

BrainLink

Guide to Managing Behaviour After Brain Injury (this guide has useful tips and case studies)

 

Acquired Brain Injury Outreach Service

Preventing and Managing Anger fact sheet

Learning to Manage Anger fact sheet

  

Please do call us on StrokeLine 1800 787 653 (Monday-Friday 9am-5pm) so we can offer you more tailored advice or email strokeline@strokefoundation.org.au. 

  

Kind regards, 

 

Adele and Simone

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