I am currently in hospital waiting room with pain in my right calf , it's probably a bite . But with my health history ,anything a bit suspicious like a possible DVT , I just want to be sure... So I don't tend to need to talk about my health history much , but when I am asked and I speak honestly - a stroke at 22 after having eclampsia I say it calmly and without any emotion , yet I always get a drop jaw look and a repeat of my words followed by the "any residual affects? " question. I say no , but I know that's not how I see it. My world changed , my husband's world changed , we have so many blessings yet the journey has been so hard at times. A residual affect has been the emotional journey that followed the physical recovery , the grief and loss. But I said no , no residual. How do others manage this delicate question ,and I know I'm probably fragile cause I just want to go home ! Sue
