The Christmas Party

Nina Wilde
Nina Wildeon Sunday, December 18 2016
6 Comments

So last night was my work Christmas Party.  Every year we go Bare Foot Bowling and of late we have had a duke box to sing and dance too.  I have been at my work place for nearly 9 years.

I was prepared for this one, a dress up - yes I dressed up.  I have a quiet voice in a crowd and I know people struggle to hear what I say, so add to that noise from music, festivities - the night could have been a bit isolating even though I was among people I know very well.

I spent most of the night up dancing and singing as loudly as I could to old songs.  The lyrics of songs giving me the opportunity to communicate on the same level as everyone else in an environment which I have always found difficult since my stroke.  A loud and noisy place full of fast speaking by everyone.  I still attended though and gave it my all till it was time for me to go home. I called it a night before many others but that's okay.  I had myself a great night with my work colleagues and felt included with much laughter shared between some pretty awesome people.

It hasn't always been this way for Christmas since my stroke and loss of our baby many years ago.

Merry Christmas Everyone!

 

 

6 Responses

What a fun start for Christmas Sue. Well done. Happy Christmas .  Jenny 

Hi Sue, 

 

 Happy Christmas to you. It sounds like you had a great party - loud conversations, singing a lot of old songs, and, more important, you were among friends. I haven't done that for quite a while, but I am planning to do that this Christmas. Bugger the noise level, I had some fantastic news at work, so I am going to enjoy myself this Christmas! 

 

Marcus

 

 

Hi Marcus,

 

What was the fantastic news?

 

Diana

Hi Diana, 

 

Please read my blog. 

 

It is fantastic news for me. 

 

Marcus

Thanks everyone - yes bugger the noise level I still needed to feel part of everything that I was given the opportunity to be!  I have always still had a life to live post stroke and loss so have been determined to continue to live to the fullest despite many hurdles.  It gives me great joy to see the sharing that goes on between people on Enableme, whether it be in sadness or in celebration, its good to have each other!

I will second that - sharing on Enableme is an excellent chance to read other's stories, falls, celebrations, tips, etc. We are all here because we had a stroke, so the more we talk with each other, the more the site will grow. 

 

Marcus

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