Hi Belinda,
Here are some more comments for you:
Toni Arfaras I had a recent discussion with a neuropsych about how they didn't know you prestroke so don;t know what you were capable of prior to the event. So it may have been that prior to your stroke you were functioning 'above average' whereas now you are at the 'norm' but of course you are aware of the difference.
Also remember that these test are conducted in ideal conditions, with no noise or distractions. If they were conducted in a 'real' environment the results, at least for myself, would be very different.
Leigh Smith My exact thoughts about the pre stroke performance. My thoughts that they can expect too much from us which can cause us a bit of stress etc.
Linda Johnston Toni Arfaras YES!!
Rachael Louise Davis I have suffered memory loss, sentence construction and cognitive loss since my stroke in dec 2017. It’s all about retraining your brain and finding a process to help with memory. I have to write everything down or else I’ll forget it (it can be gone the minute the conversation is over) plus taking friends/family to appointments, meetings.
PhilandNarelle Torpy Since my stroke, it is about retraining you brain just like we work on the rest of our bodies. We need to relearn and increase focus, practiced makes perfect. My has gradually improved . It has been 4 years since my stroke.
Dean Smart Don't believe everything the "professionals" tell you. The last neuro bloke I saw said there is "nothing wrong" Nothing besides the fatigue, thoughts of finishing it all, the hemienopia...I could go on.....
Colin Coulson couldn't agree more the last time l seen a neuro he told me all my balance issues were in my head, so l scratched said head and walked out none the wiser
Leigh Smith I agree...After each time of seeing a neuro, I came away feeling a bit disappointed within myself and felt a bit pressured to perform well. I too have a bit of memory problem and a bit of difficulty in speaking the correct word and even whilst writing, not forming the "most amazing sentences" I once did lol!
Helen Vasicek it is not always you with the memory problem, sometimes it is them, to prove it write it down then ask them the question again and 9 times out of 10 the answer is not the same. you are an easy target for some do not put yourself down, the biggest problem is they say it is you because you are the person who had the stroke. I have caught many people out this way believe in yourself just keep some proof for future references. in real life experience. the reality of a problem does not necessarily found in a reference book, it is found in real life experience
Linda Johnston Sure there's anxiety when searching for words or trying to remember correctly the important list of things to do! But things do get easier in time. Sometimes it's one step forward, two steps back. Go easy on yourself 🙂
Craig Selby My memory is terrible after my stroke it lets me down a lot ,
Kim Jackson Craig Selby It sounds like you are pretty vision-impaired, but you are still determined to persist through it enough to write here, so i am just sending you a big brassy !Salut! cause i reckon you deserve it. Onya. k
Suzanne Forte 3 TIA's and I definitely feel that a part of my past memories are blurry.
Kane Brad Tracey Its been 6yrs since my parietal stroke/Brain haemorrhage & I have bad memory loss when i’m tired,especially, i get fatigued a lot as my left side still gets numb/pins & needles/dead weight with no sensory in my finger & toe tips /palms & bottom of feet…See More
Adrian O'Malley Was it a Neuropsychological Assessment instead as that would test memory? Both Neuro and Neuropsycy assessments are about the brain but are very different things. Just checking.
Barnes John Vera They said the same to my husband. I know & he knows different.
He said the best he can describe it is like this; imagine a blackboard with white dots... the white dots - represent his memory... it takes something to trigger it and doesn’t always remember all of it... combines short term memory stuff...
And if he sees an old photo of something he doesn’t remember he gets a massive headache trying to recall it, thinking about it...
So definitely something not right. They the ‘stroke specialist’ don’t know everything.
Cara Moran A rehab consultant told me that intelligent people will notice, and be more bothered, by small changes
Lee McKenna I work really hard on my memory and I still regularly turn up to medical. Appointments. On the. Wrong day Even though I set up my calendar on my I phone be kind to yourself we all do the best we can
Meryl Stanhope This is my experience following a heart attack and open heart surgery. It is frustrating.
Chris Turner I confess to having this problem - I have found that it's a concentration issue - e..g. I will discuss an upcoming doc appointment with my daughter (who usually attends with me since I sometimes have trouble remembering details) and after my minor stoke, found I could never remember what time we had agreed to meet before appointment. I could remember the discussion but not the final answer. It seems silly and annoyed me a lot. Her solution was to text me at the end of the discussion as to the date/time of our meeting. The devil was in the details for me. For some reason, if I concentrated (as in a test) my memory was good - but in normal day to day stuff, unless I focussed the info "didn't stick". I now use my phone calander and my daughter (god bless her) sends me txt msg of important stuff. That's just my experience and I think you just need to recognise your limitations and take some corrective action that works for you.