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Adam Marnan
Adam Marnanon Sunday, May 22 2016
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Hi all,

I suffered a superior sagittal sinus thrombosis about 10 weeks ago. As I see it I am lucky as the symptoms started to disappear that afternoon. I suffered a seizure about 5 hrs after the thrombosis. I would like to know if anybody gets really upset and cranky mainly towards the end of the day. I have now been diagnosed with depression, is this a normal occurrence after an event like this.  I have major meltdowns with the wife and kids especially if there has been a lot of noise and kids arguing about things. It is starting to get to me and the family. I would like any advice on how to deal with this. I find that the family see me up and walking about and think that I am back to normal. All of a sudden I will hit the wall and just want to sleep which is hard with 3 young kids. 

Looking forward to receiving sine advice

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Adam  I could relate to much of your post even though our stroke experiences quite different. Early in recovery I could have a melt down any time of the day. My younger grandsons had to learn to be quiet around grandma as noise troubled me, I then felt irritable. For the first 3 years into recovery I needed anti depressant medication that helped  greatly. Counselling also helped me to understand that  my emotions were all very normal after a stroke. Now I manage without pills. With young children you obviously live in a busy family. Do you take time out to have a daily rest . I find that essential as that does help with fatigue  and emotions. Our Carers need  gold medal for the work they do.  Our families just want us to be "normal"again. Whatever that means"I I wish you well in journey through recovery .  Jenny

Hi Adam,

 

What you are experiences is very common after stroke. Here is some information that may help.

 

Here is a link to emotions after stroke resources in enableme - click here

 

See a video about emotions after stroke here.

See a video about personality changes after stroke here.

 

You may find it handy to talk to Antonio - good to connect with, also Karen. Both are longer term survivors, and both had young children when they had their strokes - they may be able to offer some advice.

 

Please call us on StrokeLine, we talk to you about depression after stroke - which is very common, and they can send you out a DVD for you/your family to watch. Here is a bit of it online, we produced it with beyondblue.

 

Diana

 

p.s. thanks Jenny for commenting, Adam, Jenny has a lot of experience with emotional liability - for more about this click here. 

 

Thankyou Diana I will look into all the info you have provided for me.

Thankyou Jenny it is a very big change in life. I wish you and Diana all the best and thanking you again for the info

 

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