My Father had stroke on the 26/9/16. Not able to look after himself. Any assistance and guidance appreciated

Darren
Darrenon Saturday, October 22 2016
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Hi. I'm new to this. Brief rundown. Father 68 had stroke on the 26/9/16. Physically good and can attend to basic needs. In hospital still. Mentally not so good. Can't always remember things and gets confused. At this stage unable to care for himself. Myself and one of my brothers are in the procees of Guardianship etc.

 

Any thoughts and guidance on this matter and what to be aware of etc much appreciated. Hospital staff and social worker are extremely helpful. But I also hoped from some feedback from people who have had to do this.

 

Thanking you 

 

Darren.

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Forgot to mention I'm in Western Australia if that makes a difference.  :-)

Hi Darren,

 

Are you able to call us on StrokeLine 1800 787 653 so that we can find our more?

 

We're sorry to hear about your fathers stroke.

 

Diana 

Hi Darren,

I’m sorry to hear about your father’s stroke and his problems with memory and confusion.  It is a very challenging time when someone you love is in this position.

 

At one month post stroke, it is very early days in your father’s recovery. Improvement can continue for years after a stroke, but for many people it’s quickest in the first six months. If he is still in an acute hospital, you can request that once he is medically stable, he gets transferred to a rehabilitation hospital with a neuro or stroke ward, where there is a team of medical and allied health staff who specialise in neurological recovery.

 

If he is already in a rehab hospital, you can ask the team who are caring for your father to organise a family meeting.  This way, you can sit down with all the different professionals who are caring for your father and ask them to explain the assessments they have done, the results, what these results mean for daily functioning and what therapy goals or course of action they have planned to address the areas of difficulty.

 

The occupational therapist (OT) is the person who works primarily with patients who have trouble with cognitive skills including memory, attention and problem solving.  They can assess cognitive function and give functional therapy exercises that will assist with day to day functioning. They can also suggest ways to compensate for problems if they are ongoing.

 

The speech pathologist may also work with your dad on memory problems related to language, for example, remembering all of the information in a long sentence.

 

The social worker will talk to you about the team’s recommendations for where your father should live and what support is required.

 

Further down the track, you may want to consider a neuropsychological assessment. This takes a more in-depth look at a person’s pattern of cognitive (thinking) strengths as well as any difficulties they may have.  It can be used to aid decision making for rehabilitation.

 

Here is our fact sheet on Thinking and Perception after Stroke

 

Please call us on StrokeLine on 1800 787 653 if you would like to talk to one of our OTs for more information. We can also supply you with a ‘My Stroke Journey’ pack that will give you information to support your father’s recovery and includes key questions to ask health professionals.

 

Kind regards,

Melita (StrokeLine)

Hi Darren, sorry to hear about your father and as carer you'll have plenty of up's and downs as you see your Dad work through recovery and rehabilitation.  My partner of 54 years of age had a massive strong in September 2015, he has been left with Aphasia (can't communicate clearly) and full body seizures which we're in the midst of working with a neurologist with.  We travelled extensively and both have individual successful businesses - my advice is to arm yourself with a good support network.  Recently I employed a person to cook and deliver meals for most of the week to ensure we both eat properly while I can manage his needs and manage our business' while also having a little bit of time out - it's a long road but if you spend the time in getting his recovery right he'll greatly appreciate the assistance I'm sure.  Tracey

Do not under any circumstances have anything to do with the guardianship racket. Its an unbelievably corrupt system that exists purely to exploit the assets of its victims. Once in the clutches of the criminal organizations, its near impossible for the victim to regain control of their life and their assets will be totally consumed in fees and costs, consequently any beneficiaries of a Will can forget ever getting anything. Furthermore, the kangaroo court will override any Will or Enduring Power of Attorney and appoint the Adult Guardian and Public Trustee, easily the most inept entities on planet earth to mis-manage the victims affairs. There are no legal solutions since kangaroo courts ignore legislation. Appeals and judicial reviews have been nobbled by legislation, the watchdogs and most support organizations refuse to help, and no politician or media entity wants to know about the guardianship racket.  There are solutions however I will not publish those in an open forum which the criminals are known to watch..

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