Congratulations on recently getting married! It’s exciting to hear you and your husband are considering starting a family.
In planning for pregnancy where there is a stroke history, we recommend that you consult with both your GP, neurologist and obstetrician/gynaecologist. The specialists can look at your past and current medical history and assist with medication management, stroke risk factor management and any pre-natal care you might require. Often, women with a stroke history may need more support and monitoring throughout their pregnancy and in hospital.
There are many women in the stroke community who have gone on to become mothers, often having more than one child. You might like to read some of their stories here:
Emma’s first mother’s day blog
A New Beginning | enableme - stroke recovery and support
Conversations around parenting with a disability | enableme - stroke recovery and support
Kate Ryan- Parenting with one arm
There is also a great Facebook page called FAST parenting. It is a closed group for stroke survivors with children and provides an incredible source of support for young survivors navigating parenthood.
If you would like to talk with one of our friendly allied health professionals, please contact StrokeLine 1800 787 653 or email strokeline@strokefoundation.org.au. Our operating hours are Monday to Friday 9am to 5pm AEST.
With kind regards,
Kath, StrokeLine
Hi, I had a child after my stroke. My situation was a little different to yours as I had my stroke when I was 40, and due to previous surgery, my age and other factors was advised I needn't take contraception as I was unlikely to fall pregnant, so I didn't make a consious decision to have a child, and was not expecting to have to deal with it as part of my recovery from stroke. I fell pregnant at 43, and as such was already a high risk candidate, without being on medication for stroke. During my pregnancy I saw a neurologist, who tweaked my medication, I had my pregnancy managed similarly to my previous pregnancies, most of the issues I had were related to my previous obstetric history rather than my stroke, and I delivered our miracle baby naturally. She is now 14 and a blessing most days.
My advice would be listen to your doctors, make sure you bring up any concerns, and enjoy the journey.
I had the benefit of having been through the process of pregnancy and birth previously, so I kind of knew what to expect and what felt right.
Take care and good luck,
Leanne.
Hi Shelby,
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